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I still have some work to do in getting the book page and my author page set up, but there it is — ready for you.
Why this Book:
I wrote this book a few years ago. I believe in the message of this book, and I believe that God will use this book in a powerful way in the lives and marriages of those who read it. Many of you who have read early drafts of the manuscript, and I have been so blessed and encouraged to receive your notes sharing how deeply this book has affected you and how God has used it in your lives.
But though I believe God is going to use this book, getting it to this “finished” point has taken what felt like an eternity.
I jokingly blame the delay on having babies or my fear of not getting everything “just right,” but the reality is that publishing a book like this leaves me feeling all vulnerable and afraid.
What an awesome calling to share God’s Scripture and to lead others in prayer! {And by awesome, I don’t mean in a “Lego Movie” jingle everything is awesome kind of way. I mean more like the dictionary definition way: extremely impressive or daunting; inspiring great admiration, apprehension, or fear.}
What a calling.
I simultaneously want to raise my hands in praise to the God who invites us to be a part of His work and hide out in fear that I might in some way mishandle Scripture or misrepresent my Savior.
I pray that isn’t true and that God will receive all glory as He works in ways that we couldn’t have hoped, comprehended, or even imagined.
Why I Need this Book, too:
The release of this book makes me feel vulnerable in other ways, too.
The thing is: my marriage isn’t perfect. Like you, we have had our seasons of struggle and areas for growth — we still do!
This book, these prayers, came out of a place of yearning and hoping and a little bit of desperation.
See, I come from a long line of leavers, and I carried into my marriage wounds and insecurities that threatened me every time my husband and I hit a little rough patch — and we all know that every marriage has a few rough patches.
But each week, I’d pray with a group of 4 friends, and we found commonalities as we’d pray for our husbands. Similar frustrations, similar hopes, similar concerns and struggles.
Marriage is hard y’all.
It’s a wrestling – with highs and lows and ins and outs and wins and losses. A marriage is a joining of two people with different personalities and temperaments and backgrounds and styles but both with flesh and a definite sin nature.
Even without the added pressure of job loss or caring for children or the emotional baggage we all carry, a marriage is made up of two distinct people both warring with their own pride, selfishness, and ideal plans.
I asked myself over and over again “Who am I to write this book when we ourselves have so much room to grow?”
But I’m learning over and over again that God takes our woundedness, our brokenness, and uses it for His glory.
This Book is for You, too:
So this book is a labor of love and a gift to you. My deep prayer is that God will use this little book of prayers in a profound way in your life and in your husband’s life.
I really believe that God is going to do something so much bigger than me through this book.
Through this journey we will be praying for more than just the outward behavior of our guys. We are surrendering ourselves to God and praying for the deeper issues of our husband’s hearts.
I have seen how God has changed (and is changing) my husband (and me!) when I pray consistently and specifically for him, and I believe that God is going to use this book to not only change our husbands, but to change us and our whole families and the legacies we live.

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Erika! This is so exciting! Celebrating this completed work with you, and looking forward to reading it – I just pre-ordered :) As I write, I am praying that the Lord will use what you have obediently written to strengthen the marriages of all who read it. Congratulations :)
Thank you so much, Lauren!! So, so grateful that you are praying!
Not exactly sure how I stumbled on to your blog, but I’m already excited it! Being only six months into my marriage, I am looking to soak up every thing I can to help me learn how to pray for and encourage my husband in a way that the Lord has called me too. Thank you so much for having the courage and allowing God to use your gifts to put this together. I’m already looking forward to reading this and to then share with all my other newly married girls!